Category Archives: Self-Awareness

4 Simple Phrases That Can Save Your Marriage

Posted on December 17, 2023 by thebossdoctor

I had a recent conversation with an individual who was lamenting the challenges of dealing with his sometimes volatile “significant other.”  It sounded to me like a problem that is not uncommon in close relationships.  “I just don’t know what … Continue reading →

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The 3 Selves—The Secret to Handling Stress, Challenges, Threats, and Growth

Posted on June 11, 2023 by thebossdoctor

The volatility of our times is increasingly confronting the modern workforce with unprecedented challenges, change, and stress.  Workers today are faced with the difficulty of performing adequately in their jobs while also forced to deal with added emotional pressures from … Continue reading →

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Why Smaller Goals Work

Posted on March 5, 2023 by thebossdoctor

In the previous edition we taught you about the power of small goals and how they can really help when your team is feeling overwhelmed.  As it happens, there is real, solid neuroscience behind this concept.  In his thought-provoking book, … Continue reading →

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Are You “Disagree-Able?”

Posted on February 5, 2023 by thebossdoctor

Avoiding the Yes-Men Trap by Inviting Constructive Conflict There’s an old adage that says, “You can’t win an argument with your boss.”  Assuming that the boss is human and not perfect, doesn’t that imply that there are times when maybe … Continue reading →

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Don’t Be a Jerk – Part 2

Posted on November 20, 2022 by thebossdoctor

One thing I have learned (and seen up close!) is that there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance!  Remember that quote?  I wrote it in an article I posted just two weeks ago on October 30th.  The article … Continue reading →

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Doer / Manager / Leader – 3 ROLES, 3 Levels, 3 Stages – Part 1.

Posted on July 24, 2022 by thebossdoctor

Which one of these are YOU?  How you answer the question depends on how you are using or understanding these terms.  Each of these three designations can describe… A role you fill in the organization where you work A position … Continue reading →

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Hey Leader…Don’t be a JERK!

Posted on May 15, 2022 by thebossdoctor

One of the most disturbing psychological principles I have found in my research is called “emotional contagion.”  It refers to the human tendency to feel and express the emotions displayed by the people around us.  Research on socialization shows that … Continue reading →

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Practice SHOSHIN

Posted on May 8, 2022 by thebossdoctor

This is a Japanese phrase meaning “beginner’s mind.”  I’ll let Buddhist scholar Shunryu Suzuki explain this concept:  This does not mean a closed mind, but actually an empty mind and a ready mind.  If your mind is empty, it is … Continue reading →

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5 Questions Every Boss Needs Answered by Their Subordinates – #2

Posted on February 20, 2022 by thebossdoctor

If you want to be an effective leader, you must be able to get clear answers to five essential questions—from EACH OF YOUR TEAM MEMBERS. The first question is the most fundamental: WHAT DO YOU NEED FROM ME IN ORDER … Continue reading →

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Know Thyself

Posted on May 23, 2021 by thebossdoctor

This word of leadership advice comes from a good friend and associate, Dan Maltby.  Dan holds a PhD. in leadership from The Drucker Institute (I think he knows a thing or two about leadership!)  At one time, Dan was administering … Continue reading →

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