Category Archives: Affirmation

4 Simple Phrases That Can Save Your Marriage

I had a recent conversation with an individual who was lamenting the challenges of dealing with his sometimes volatile “significant other.”  It sounded to me like a problem that is not uncommon in close relationships.  “I just don’t know what … Continue reading

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A Unique Leader Worthy of Consideration

The emotional impact of a leader is obviously subjective—it’s up to the individual “follower” to determine the value of a leader’s work.  By that token, a leader may have an immense emotional impact even in spite of loss or failure.  … Continue reading

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How to Express Gratitude at Work

Thanksgiving Day is an annual reminder of the importance of gratitude—both as a mindset and a practice.  Is gratitude really that important????  Research enables us to answer that with a resounding yes!  Many studies have shown: Gratitude is good for … Continue reading

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How to Leverage Key Relationships for Career Success

This is all about “WHO you know” and how to make the most of your professional relationships in order to fuel your career success. I’m following up last week’s issue with more helpful details because of a response I received … Continue reading

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Share Credit

In his excellent book, How to Become CEO, Jeffrey Fox advises leaders to “be a credit maker, not a credit taker.”  He says, “The credit taker is insecure, dishonest, and known to all.  Even the cleverest credit taker is ultimately … Continue reading

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Hey Leader…Don’t be a JERK!

One of the most disturbing psychological principles I have found in my research is called “emotional contagion.”  It refers to the human tendency to feel and express the emotions displayed by the people around us.  Research on socialization shows that … Continue reading

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Say the Right Thing

John Adair said it well:   Communication is the sister of leadership.  Nitin Nohria, underscored that with the following observation:  Communication is the real work of leadership. Up Close and Personal During an executive team meeting I attended, our insightful … Continue reading

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